People don't control circumstances; God does. Whatever we might be going through with our family, friends, marriage, children, or on our job, God is in control. We waste time and energy being angry, holding grudges, and thinking about why people do what they do and the decisions they make we might not agree with. God is in control of everything and our faithfulness is tested by how we react to the circumstances in our life. Worship and praise God when things are going well and praise Him when you feel like you're going through hell. God IS in control.